passion4pups
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Okay, as suggested in my dog introductions, I'm looking for ideas and suggestions to my labs occasional issues with my oldest daughter. He does not like her giving him commands and taking part in any of the leadership/master role in some of the lesser enjoyed aspects of being a dog. Such as being ordered to go outside when he doesn't want to, having frontline applied by her, cleaning of his ears, by her, or releasing of his toys or treats to her.
Background;
Zeus was purchased by my husbands ex-wife as a pup . She was on her third marriage, and hubby 3 was very abusive to the boys (my step sons) and their pup. To this day Zeus becomes extremely agitated when a belt is pulled out or off the pants, becomes extremely verbal and agitated when my other two dogs play gets really rough, AND gets agitated when play wrestling out rough housing between humans gets too out of hand for him. he plain does NOT like any type of strife in his life.
between 16 -18 months of age Ex-wife was going to get rid of Zeus. He was too wild, he didn't listen to her, he chewed on everything . . . and all those generic excuses. The boys begged their dad to help, and Zeus came here. I think Zeus knows my hubs saved him . . . the bond between those two is so strong it's almost perfect.
Now in my grooming exp. I had learned most labs I came across were high strung, under trained, blockheads!! Zeus was the exception . . . I loved him almost immediately. And I think he loved me as well.
Anyhow, integration of the two households was done . . Zeus thinking he was human had to learn a lot of dog behavior and it was touch and go on signals . . a few times there was some foggy dog signals and misreading , but eventually all worked out.
My Akita and Zeus mixed well, adding our third the Standard Poo was easy and the missing puzzle piece.
BUT
Occasionally when my 17 year old tries to help me out by helping apply Frontline. Helping to hold Zeus so I can clean ears. (oh my does he hate this) Or if he has happened to sneak something out of the garbage or off the table he DOES NOT want to release it. Certain toys he seems particularly possessive of as well. Now most times if it is hubby or me he will obey on first command, or even second . . but with my 17year old . . NOPE. Unless he is going to receive something pleasant he will stare her down, stand his ground and sometimes even threaten to bite (usually making a snapping motion towards a hand or wrist, I have never seen him lunge or jump)
She is the kindest, most gentle soul. Never aggressive towards him or any of the dogs, but also not very assertive . . I personally think he has accepted dad and I as leaders and thinks of 17 year old as a lesser pack member . . . but am open to suggestions. (even though changing this situation will get tough with her leaving for college in 2 weeks)
Background;
Zeus was purchased by my husbands ex-wife as a pup . She was on her third marriage, and hubby 3 was very abusive to the boys (my step sons) and their pup. To this day Zeus becomes extremely agitated when a belt is pulled out or off the pants, becomes extremely verbal and agitated when my other two dogs play gets really rough, AND gets agitated when play wrestling out rough housing between humans gets too out of hand for him. he plain does NOT like any type of strife in his life.
between 16 -18 months of age Ex-wife was going to get rid of Zeus. He was too wild, he didn't listen to her, he chewed on everything . . . and all those generic excuses. The boys begged their dad to help, and Zeus came here. I think Zeus knows my hubs saved him . . . the bond between those two is so strong it's almost perfect.
Now in my grooming exp. I had learned most labs I came across were high strung, under trained, blockheads!! Zeus was the exception . . . I loved him almost immediately. And I think he loved me as well.
Anyhow, integration of the two households was done . . Zeus thinking he was human had to learn a lot of dog behavior and it was touch and go on signals . . a few times there was some foggy dog signals and misreading , but eventually all worked out.
My Akita and Zeus mixed well, adding our third the Standard Poo was easy and the missing puzzle piece.
BUT
Occasionally when my 17 year old tries to help me out by helping apply Frontline. Helping to hold Zeus so I can clean ears. (oh my does he hate this) Or if he has happened to sneak something out of the garbage or off the table he DOES NOT want to release it. Certain toys he seems particularly possessive of as well. Now most times if it is hubby or me he will obey on first command, or even second . . but with my 17year old . . NOPE. Unless he is going to receive something pleasant he will stare her down, stand his ground and sometimes even threaten to bite (usually making a snapping motion towards a hand or wrist, I have never seen him lunge or jump)
She is the kindest, most gentle soul. Never aggressive towards him or any of the dogs, but also not very assertive . . I personally think he has accepted dad and I as leaders and thinks of 17 year old as a lesser pack member . . . but am open to suggestions. (even though changing this situation will get tough with her leaving for college in 2 weeks)