yvonne;14707 said:
On asking a girl I know how her puppies were progressing, she told me they were doing really well.
"How is the training coming along?" I asked her.
"Oh that" she said "Ive decided not to train them until they are much older, I think its wrong to deprive dogs of their 'puppyhood' They should be free to enjoy life until they are much older"
Forum member opinions please ..
Well...what your friend decided is based on her personal opinion. The fact is that puppies start learning at the very early stage of their lives and they actually programmed to learn very early. In the wild the wouldn't survive if they were too "take their time and enjoy their puppyhood" without learning. I would never work against Mother Nature because things were "designed" this way for a reason. Puppyhood is FILLED with learning, observing, trying new things, exploring in nature. Puppies learn new things just when they play.
Another thing is that if you have a puppy that is growing fast and is going to be big, than "good luck" with waiting for a puppy to reach maturity level (which for some breeds is 2 or even 3 years of age) :msngiggle: Seriously though - the belief that the dogs don't need training early on is one of the reasons there are so many dogs abandoned in the shelters with a label "unrealistic expectation" (of the owner that is

).
Last but not least, I don't know what your friend's idea of training is, but to me and to Shakti, training is the most cherished and enjoyable time that we spend together, bond, share, learn from each other and have fun! :msnparty: :dogsmile:That's something that I would never deprive my dog of. :dognowink: My fondest memories are thouse when little Shakti was learning her very first skills and tricks and I would exclaim to my husband with excitement and joy "Look what we learned today!" :msngiggle: :doglaugh: A good trainer makes it so a dog can't tell the difference between "training" and "playing" and so a dog learns how to LOVE being trained. A dog's mind is a terrible thing to waste in my opinion.
People will always have strong opinions about things like dog training, so the best advice I can give you is to READ, READ, READ about all kinds of points of view and research the facts on your own (like you're already doing) and then decide on your own what you think is the best thing for a dog.
Oh - once when Shakti was a young puppy I was criticized by a complete stranger that I was walking Shakti on a leash as supposedly she was too young to walk on a leash... :dogwacko: I don't know what was this lady's idea of walking a dog and socializing a dog without a leash and she didn't have any suggestions - just the criticism and this lady's opinion that wasn't based on any facts.
There are things that you have to be careful with young puppies because of some physical reasons - for example with agility training (especially with jumping), but I don't know if your friend meant that kind of training or just basic manners, obedience, social skills, etc.
I hope this helps...