Before Asking for Advice ...

The internet is a great way to communicate and to share information, however there is a vast variety of information available to us, which may or may not be suitable for you and your dog.

Before asking for help, tips or suggestions, please take into consideration the following:

• Training Methods:
  Everybody has their own unique way of training dogs; some methods are widely accepted while others are somewhat controversial. It is important to consider that each reply you receive will reflect on the author’s training methods.
  
  
• Proper Evaluation:
  Being aware of the factors which cause a behavioral problem can be challenging. Dogs interpret situations and circumstances differently than we do. It is important to look at each situation as if you were your dog.
  
  
• Different Dogs:
  Your dog is individually different from all other dogs; his breed, size, sex and temperament are influencing factors into what makes him unique. It is important to note that your dog might respond differently to a training technique than another.
  
  
• Experience:
  Following the directions of a training technique is sometimes harder than it seems. Things don’t always go according to the plan, and your dog may react very differently than directed. Having experience with dog training enables you to make appropriate changes while still getting the desired result.

We currently live in the information age, and there are numerous opinions and training techniques out there. It is up to you to decide what is appropriate for you and your dog. If you are not comfortable training your dog with a certain technique, simply ask for another one.

While I believe that training our dog ourselves is often the best way to go – there are times where seeking professional help can help tremendously. A dog behaviorist will evaluate your problem correctly and assign you with a training plan suitable for you and your dog. Spending the money is often well worth it, especially if you are new to owning a dog.


I appreciate that you are taking the time to read this – I will look forward to your questions and concerns.

Good point Tigerlily. Just the other day I was talking to one of the other managers at work about people who apply for my department claiming they "know what they are doing" because they can do the simplest task out of hundreds of tasks my job includes. Anyone can SAY they can do the job, but actually doing it is a different matter.

The ability to unclog a toilet doesn't make you a plumber. (And no, I'm not a plumber. xD)

So do be picky when finding a behaviorist. Don't just take their word for it. Ask questions, sit in on sessions with other clients, see if you both have a similar training philosophy. Many places claim that they use "POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT" but neglect to mention they also heavily rely on physical corrections. Is this something you agree with? If not, look for other options! YOU are the only one who can stand up for your dog. You have to be his/her voice.

Inform yourself as much as humanly possible before searching for a trainer or behaviorist, so you can develop an opinion. But, do be open-minded. Don't read one book and decide that ONE trainer has all the answers and their way is the only way. Take bits and pieces from each book or trainer you encounter, and develop your own opinion. In order to learn, you have to be willing to learn. You can't read a closed book.

If you start working with a behaviorist or trainer and learn halfway through that their methods are not at all what you agree with, don't be afraid to abandon ship. That person is going to make money from lots of dog owners who may not do as much research as you, so they're not going to adapt THEIR methods to satisfy you, one customer. You and your dog will be better off leaving that trainer/behaviorist to find one that believes in the methods you believe in and is passionate about using them.

Also, references aren't everything. I recently read a book called "What the Dog Did." I hated the book so much I threw it away so no one else had to read it. Anyway, in the book the author adopted a Beagle and then ended up with issues. She heard all these great references about a trainer and decided to go to him without informing herself about training methods. When I was reading this, I was sick at the things this terrible trainer was doing. He was an angry Cesar Milan type who I think even Cesar would have trouble sitting in the same room with. The author hadn't informed herself, and didn't have a clue about training or behavior. She thought this quack was a Godsend despite the fact that her dog urinated all over itself the first time she met the guy because he had corrected her so harshly. Ugh....anyway, point being, don't just trust references--see for yourself. If everyone was telling you the pool was full of nice cool water, you probably still wouldn't slap on a blindfold and dive in just to find you just dove in to a completely empty pool. CHECK THINGS OUT YOURSELF, references aren't everything, although they can be helpful.

Minor thread derail, sorry Jean.

When asking for help, do browse around first and find threads on a similar topic. This could answer your question, or give you a heads up as to what you can probably expect from the members of this website. Then post your question. You may get similar answers to the other posts you've read, or something completely new. Either way, you'll be more informed and have several options to try if one or a few don't work for your dog.