Hello there. I was just wondering... if I put Missy in a sit or down and she gets up out of position without permission (I do reward her with a treat for doing the correct thing in the first place), either I will say "ah" or walk up to her and place her back without saying anything. Which do you think is the better way? Your thoughts on this would be appreciated. What should I do? *I prefer just walking up to her and placing her back, that way I don't feel like I'm constantly correcting her ("ah").* What do you do? Also, when Muse our cat meows, and she goes crazy if I'm not in the room I just ignore it until she loses interest or say "shh" and she occasionally will quiet down. I was wondering if I was doing it right? Thoughts on this would also be very much appreciated. What's your view on"be the pack leader" aspect of owning a dog/border collie? Sometimes my mom thinks I'm "too soft" with Missy. Is there such a thing as being too soft? Help? I want to make sure I'm doing it right, and I want to do it all positively of course! Thanks for all the help, in advance!